Jane-Ashley McMillan, Attorney at Law

Plano Family Law Blog

Communication tips for new co-parents

New co-parents typically carry emotional baggage beneath the surface level custody conversations they have together. Whether talking to your ex makes you feel angry, sad or remorseful, these emotions can make it uncomfortable to routinely discuss schedule arrangements and make custody exchanges.

To make these communications a little easier, try these tips for new co-parents.

What can you do to help your children cope with your divorce?

Choosing to divorce is a decision that two adults make, but the effects reach the entire family. You can’t avoid the issue with your children forever—and it might be tough on them when you do tell them.

You should be prepared to help them through the process. Knowing what to expect and how to support your children can help make everything go more smoothly for your family.

What happens when pet parents split?

For most pet owners, your animal feels like a member of the family. So, if you and your spouse are discussing divorce, you may expect the courts to treat your pet similarly to a child custody matter.

However, pets are handled more similarly to your furniture than a child. Here’s how divorce works when exes share a pet.

Can I keep my home after divorce?

Parting ways with your spouse is only one of several “Goodbyes” a divorce imposes. You’ll also be leaving behind a portion of the assets you and your spouse once shared. For many divorcees, that includes saying “Au revoir!” to your home.

But, since the process of selling and relocating can be costly and time-consuming, you may wonder if there is any way to keep your home during property division. Answering the following questions can help you decide.

Steps that prolong your divorce

Not all couples might realize that Texas has certain laws about how a divorce is conducted. Some of these procedures will prevent you from a speedy proceeding.

While you may feel ready to end your marriage as soon as possible, be aware that these steps will slow the process no matter what.

How can women financially prepare for life after divorce?

As much as you want to believe men and women are treated equally, it is not always true. Women still make on average less money than men. During a divorce, it also means women are impacted differently. According to a report by the U.S. Government Accountability Office, when women divorce, their average household income drops by 41 percent, which is almost double the amount men’s income drops.

However, there are some ways to prepare. Here are six steps to get you on the right financial path post-divorce.

Discriminating against prospective LGBT parents may hurt children

LGBT couples sometimes face hurdles when trying to adopt or foster children, thanks to state laws that allow agencies to decline same-sex couples the ability to adopt. A new study shows these restrictions may do harm to children in addition to being discriminatory.  

Analysis from the Center for American Progress, Voice for Adoption and the North American Council on Adoptable Children found that state laws allowing adoptive and foster care agencies to refuse placing children based on religious beliefs were harmful for children and more expensive for taxpayers, as those children spent more time in state custody. 

Is custody after divorce shifting to a 50/50 model?

If you are going through a divorce, one of the biggest worries you may have is how much time you will get to spend with your kids once the divorce is finalized. Many dads go into a divorce believing that there is a biased toward the mom receiving more time in the custody agreement.  

Your divorce options in Texas: Fault and no-fault filings

You make the decision to divorce your spouse after years of marriage. Whether you and your spouse simply cannot get along or your spouse caused your marriage’s demise in some way, you want to file to separate.

In Texas, you may file either a fault-based divorce or a no-fault divorce. Either designation will terminate your marriage, but a fault divorce may bring longer proceedings and a more favorable outcome of assets and custody, while no-fault divorces resolve most quickly. Whether you wish to file either divorce type, you want to hire an experienced family law attorney committed to your rights. Divorces prove to involve serious emotions, and terminating a marriage may bring confusion, so you want to employ the expertise of a knowledgeable individual to fight for your rights during your divorce.

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